Sorry to hear of your loss of Paula. This may be a difficult transition time for you, but I wish for you that the joy of shared memories will sustain you during this difficult time.
Lili Hertzler
June 29, 2015
Tom and Sarah: So sorry to just now hear of your loss. Please know that I am thinking of you and offering up prayers to God that He helps you find the strength and peace to move forward in Paula's honor.
Chip Marshall
April 8, 2015
Tom, I was so sorry to read of Paula's passing. We missed you in Nashville and learned of Paula's illness. My thoughts are with you and your daughter. Jan Tillman
Jan Tillman
March 2, 2015
While at first I was attracted to the wonderful objects in the van Deest antique fair booths, I was always tempted to linger by Paula's spirited and thoughtful conversations with me. I very much admired her upbeat positive attitude . Tom I am so sorry for your loss.
Paula Rubenstein
March 1, 2015
My condolences to Tom and Sarah.
I will truly miss seeing Paula at the shows we did together.
She was always smiling and had a great since of humor.
Tom and Sarah, you will be in my thoughts.
Darwin D. Bearley
March 1, 2015
I always looked forward to seeing Paula at shows for her enthusiasm and cheery greeting. I can't even remember how long we have known each other. The last time we met was in Brimfield were I bought some things, talked about her treatments, and had a loving hug. Such a wonderful picture of her. So sorry for your loss Tom.
Aarne Anton
March 1, 2015
Tom,
So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.
Andy Pickens
February 26, 2015
Dear Tom and Sarah, I just heard the terribly sad news of Paula's passing. I knew she had been sick when I saw her at the last Midwest Show, but she was so excited to show a piece of my jewelry to Sarah that her enthusiasm made me believe things were better. Your tribute to her was so touching and heartfelt! She certainly will be missed by all of us! Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this incredibly sad time. Mary Kay Miller
Mary Kay Miller
February 22, 2015
Tom - We are thinking of you and feel your loss. Your family has always been kind and considerate to others and we pray that you are consoled in the comfort of others. I have nothing but good memories of your family and the character they exhibited in their lives. Our thoughts are with you and your family in the loss of your lovely wife and mother.
Bob and Elaine Sample
Bob and Elaine Sample
February 21, 2015
In sympathy and hope to Paula's family....
A great soul
serves everyone
all the time
A great soul
never dies
It brings us together
again
and again
Maya Angelou
Linda Henderson -Sorensen
February 20, 2015
What a caring and meaningful tribute to Paula. Hi, Tom. My most memorable image of her pictures her in a business persona behind the counter at the Whippoorwill. I'm sorry that this has happened to your family, and I hope in time you will be able to adjust. Best wishes always, Ron
ronald sigmundi
February 18, 2015
Tom,
Dave and I were so sad to learn of the loss of Paula this past week. She was one of those amazing people that don’t come along more than once in a lifetime. We feel fortunate to have known her so many years ago during the height of our shared antiquing scene in CR-Marion. I always looked up to her. Please know you and your daughter are in our thoughts.
-Maureen Collins-Williams and Dave Williams
Maureen Collins-Williams
February 18, 2015
Please accept our heartfelt condolences. We are so sorry for your loss.
Jim, Renee & Brock Severson
Ben & Amanda Wiele
The Severson Family
February 18, 2015
Tom, Sarah and Family,
Although I've never had the opportunity to meet either one of you. I did know your wife and mother as we both attended Price Lab School and were neighbors. Paula lived directly behind our house in Cedar FaIls and after reflecting back on those days gone by, many fond memories return. I remember her as being a very outgoing, caring, special person. I am so very sorry for your loss; my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this time of loss.
John Davids
February 17, 2015
John Davids School
February 17, 2015
Tom, Sarah, and family,
I am so sorry for your loss of Paula. Know there are many praying for your strength at this very difficult time. Hopefully your wonderful memories will fill the horrible void you are now experiencing. God Bless.
Nancy Miller
Nancy Miller
February 17, 2015
Dear Tom and Sarah,
I am so sorry for your loss; I cannot imagine how you feel. However, you are both in my thoughts and prayers. As you deal with this difficult time, may your memories be a comfort.
With sympathy,
Carolyn Cleveland
Carolyn Cleveland
February 17, 2015
Tom and family...Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time... the Tim Richeson family
Mary Richeson
February 17, 2015
Tom and Sarah: We are sorry for the loss of your wonderful wife and beautiful mother. Our thoughts are with you both. She will be missed my many. Never without a smile or a good word.
Doug and Maggie McInroy
Doug and Maggie McInroy
February 17, 2015
Tom, Sara, and family-a great loss that words can't describe. I have wonderful memories of doing the Brimfield Antique Show with Paula and Lou-one in particular when she was pregnant with Sara. Paula's ready smile and upbeat attitude along with her great talents will live on in my memory of a very special person. Mary Kugler
mary kugler
February 17, 2015
Tom and Sarah:
You both have my deepest sympathy at the loss of your dear Paula. What a wonderful, powerful, woman. I will forever remember her welcoming smile.
Most sincerely,
Pam Erusha Johnson
Pam Johnson
February 17, 2015
Tom and Sarah--So sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to both of you during this difficult time. While it is always difficult to find the right words to express sympathies, please know my deepest condolences are with you. Ann Mallie
Ann Mallie
February 17, 2015
To the van Deest family,
You have our deepest condolences. We share your pain. What a wonderful talented person she
was. You are in our hearts and prayers. Les, Diane, and Joey
LESLIE R. SANTEE & DIANE E. SANTEE
February 17, 2015
Tom and Sarah, We are so very sorry for your tremendous loss. We can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. Paula was a wonderful person and we cared deeply for her, as did everyone that had the privilege of knowing her. She will be greatly missed by all of us. We are so sorry for your pain. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you both, Steve and Rita
Rita and Steve Carnine
February 16, 2015
Dear Tom and Sarah~I am truly sorry to hear about Paula. My heart goes out to both of you during this most difficult time. Words are hard to find, but I hope the fond memories will bring you comfort in time. She lives on in your spirit and smiles. Love to you both!
Audra Hootman (Spies)
February 16, 2015
To the entire vanDeest family... I am very sorry to learn about the loss of Paula. Although I never met her, Tim always spoke so highly of her- specifically of her always positive attitude and courage. My deepest sympathy goes out to your family.
Todd Ransom
February 16, 2015
Tom, our hearts are aching for you. We can't pretend to imagine your loss but we do know that Paula's smile always seemed to light up everyone around her. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Sue and Ron Olson
February 16, 2015
Tom and Sarah...........our deepest sympathy goes out to both of you over the huge loss involving Paula. What a tremendous woman she was and a positive role model to everyone who knew her. We will hold all of you in our thoughts and prayers!
Randy and Suzanne Krejci
February 16, 2015
Tom, we are so sorry to hear of Paula's passing. Our boys helped at your antique show and knew Paula, and learned to know you away from school. We send our prayers to you.
Wayne and Arlene Shaw
February 16, 2015
Tom and Sarah,
I am so sorry to hear of Paula's passing. I remember her quick smile and wit--a real joy to be around. I also remember how she shared her talent by guiding us through the restoration of the auditorium ceiling at Franklin. She was the go-to person on the project--always listening first and then sharing her expertise. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Fred Althoff
Fred Althoff
February 16, 2015
Tom and Sarah, I was so sorry to learn of Paula's passing. She and I first met when we moved to Cedar Rapids in 1977 and she was working at Kenwood House. She gave us fantastic assistance as redecorated our home. After she left Kenwood House, Whippoorwill became one of my favorite places to shop. The merchandise was great--I still have many items I bought there--but it was even more fun to see Paula! Over the years, when I ran into her at antique shows and other places, it was always a treat to visit with her. She was a very special person who will be missed by many, and I know your hearts are broken. My deepest sympathy to you and to the rest of her family.
Rosie Hilliard
February 16, 2015
Tom and Sarah,
Just a brief note to offer my sympathy. The Gazette article was so well done, and the two photos of Paula are so cute - but then, she was a good looking girl, had great taste in how she presented herself, and in decorating - both inside and outside her home. I also recall that she could throw together a last minute meal for unexpected guests, and when served, it was as if she'd been preparing all day.
I'll never forget how thrilled and excited she was when she became pregnant, and after her darling girl arrived, she was so happy, and assumed her role of motherhood with love and the strong desire to be the best mother she could possibly be. Another goal accomplished, Paula.
I remember the fun I've had through the years with friends like you and Paula, and - even when by myself - laugh out loud with joy. (I remember when Paula had a 40th birthday party for you, Tom, and it was soooo much fun!)
I'm sure both of you realize that your lives are now changed forever - but after awhile, you will adjust. Both of you may find yourselves talking to Paula, and that's good. Keep her informed and ask for advice. She'll enjoy being kept in the loop.
Dianne K.
Dianne Kamp
February 15, 2015
Dear Tom, Sarah and Family - We are sincerely sorry to learn of Paula's passing. Her ever-present smile was a gift that many of us will remember. We will all miss her. We extend our sincere condolences - please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Steve & Mary Ann Koenig
Steve & Mary Ann Koenig
February 15, 2015
Sarah - We are so sorry to hear of the loss of you mother! We remember all of the fun you and Courtney had growing up together in elementary school, and what a wonderful lady your mom was! Always keep her memories in your heart! God Bless!
Courtney & Kary Williams
February 15, 2015
Tom and Sarah,
Words cannot express my deep sorrow for your loss! She was a great wife and mom! She was so dear hearted when the tennis team would pull pranks and stop by. We loved her and had multiple years of great memories. My prayers are with you both and rest of family!
Jenny Puk (Marguerite
February 15, 2015
Tom, Sarah, and Family:
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Michele & Craig Wilson
Michele & Craig Wilson
February 15, 2015
Tom, Sarah, and Family:
We are deeply sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Craig and Michele Wilson
Michele and Craig Wilson
February 15, 2015
Tom,
I am so sorry to hear of Paula's passing. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Carol & Dick Lensing
Carol Lensing
February 15, 2015
Tom, Sarah, Lee, Bob, Mary & Kirk,
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for your family.
Dave Furneaux
Dave Furneaux
February 15, 2015
To Tom and Sarah,
I am so very stunned. And I am heartbroken for you,
Mary Boudreau ( Hall )
February 15, 2015
Sincere sympathy for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Bill & Barb Burns
February 15, 2015
one of the most upbeat persons I have ever known, kind, generous and always with a warm smile. paula had a special place in my heart and her spirit will be with me and many people she knew forever. all my love and healing thoughts to sarah and tom.
larry carroll
February 15, 2015
one of the most upbeat persons I have ever known, kind, generous and always with a warm smile. paula had a special place in my heart and her spirit will be with me and many people she knew forever. all my love and healing thoughts to sarah and tom.
larry carroll
February 15, 2015
With deepest sympathy for your great loss. We will keep you, Sarah and all of your family and close friends in our thoughts and prayers. We sincerely hope that you with find peace, joy and happiness again soon.
Tom and Maize Micek
February 15, 2015
To all the family--My deepest sympathy for your great loss! I occasionally worked along side Paula at the Whipporwill and it was one of life's experiences to be with her, enjoy her, and learn from her. She added so much to life with her knowledge, experience, and enthusiasm. She will be greatly missed by many!!
Belinha Hampton
February 15, 2015
Dear Tom. So very sorry to hear of Paula's passing. Know Paula lives on in our memories and in all the good she did and in your daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Sarah and family. Take care, Don Johnson
Don Johnson
February 15, 2015
In this time of need my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Tom. You have my deepest sympathy.
Stephen Volesky
February 15, 2015
Tom so sorry to for your loss, you are in my prayers.
Larry Hanover
February 15, 2015
Dear Tom and family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your wife. It sounds like she was a very wonderful person. . You have always been so kind to those that have lost someone special in their lives and wrote such nice comments reflecting on our losses. I am thinking of you, Tom, and praying for you during this time. May you have comfort and peace during this time like the times you have helped others. You had such wonderful parents also. My heart goes out to you and your daughter. God Bless you, Tom.
Jackie Sample Thomas
February 15, 2015
Mr. van Deest, I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your wife Paula. My sincere condolences to you and your daughter Sarah. May her memory be eternal! My thoughts and prayers are with you.......Cynthia Abodeely.
Cynthia Abodeely
February 15, 2015
Sarah and Tom, my thoughts are with you. Paula was a wonderful parent volunteer during the two years that I had Sarah in 4th and 5th grade. She always came in with a smile and a positive word. I will always remember her "funky" glasses. She was on every field trip for two years. All are proud of everything she did.
Edna Wood
February 15, 2015
Mr. VanDeest and family. Please know you are in the Sibert's prayers. My mom, Marlene Sibert asked me to tell you she is so sorry. I hope you can find comfort knowing that people are praying for you and your family during these sad times. Karla Sibert
Karla Sibert
February 15, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss. We hope peace and comfort come at this very difficult time. You are in thoughts and prayers. May God bless you.
Jim and Carol Voss
Jim Voss
February 15, 2015
My deepest condolences to your family!!! God made such a wonderful woman when he made your wife, mother, daughter, sister....... Now be comforted knowing she is no longer suffering!!! Jesus has His arms around His wonderful creation!!
Julie Vyskocil
February 15, 2015
Dear Tom and Sarah...Sending love and our sincere condolences as you mourn the loss of Paula. We adored everything about her, including her spunk, sense of humor, style, passion, knowledge, energy, and the fact that she loved you both so very much. Whenever you are ready, we would like to spend some time with you. Please take care.
Anne Taylor & Jeff Lindeman
February 15, 2015
Tom I am so very sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you and Sarah.
Gail
Gail Gaimari - Shelton
February 14, 2015
Tom and Family,
I was so sad to read about Paula passing away. She was a wonderful, lovely, person, and my thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this very painful time. With deepest sympathy, Toni Neta
Toni Neta
February 14, 2015
You and Sarah have been in our thoughts all day. We hope you will find peace.
Jim and Barbara Wing
February 14, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with you Tom and Sarah. May the dear memories you hold of your wife and mother lift you when you most need it. Hugs to both of you!
Rhonda Michels
February 14, 2015
Dear Tom and Sarah, I did not know that Paula was ill. I am so very sorry for your loss. She loved you both so very much.
Sara Riley
Sara Riley
February 14, 2015
Dear Tom and Sarah,
My deepest sympathy to you both as you mourn the loss of your mother, friend, wife and part of your soul. There are no words, only prayers for you both to find peace and love remembering all you shared. My love to you both.
Denise Melchert
February 14, 2015
we were so sorry to hear about Paula. The last time I saw her, we were in HyVee... Me, lamenting the fact that I was not retired... Her, telling me all about what Sarah was doing now. She was so joyful and lovely, as always. Know that the two of you completed her life., widening her smile and giving her giggles. Please feel my hug to you both. Sincerest sympathies, "Christopher" and Karl
Chris and Karl Werner
February 14, 2015
Dear Tom & Sarah,
Although I only knew Paula from the antique shows, I was very fond of her and always so impressed with her fantastic eye for great folk art. She was a very kind-hearted person, beautiful both inside and out. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. Please know that my deepest thoughts and prayers are with you. I am sorry for your loss. It is a loss to all who knew her.
Sheridan
Sheridan Loyd
February 14, 2015
I am deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Christine Engel (Nassif)
Christine Engel(Nassif)
February 14, 2015
Tom & Sarah, I am so sorry. I have such good memories of Paula. Paula, Dick Cooley and I used to take step aerobics together at the YMCA years ago. We had many good laughs while exercising. My Christmas tree is still decorated with many of the ornaments I purchased from Paula/Whippoorwill. Karla, one of my Jefferson DECA students, worked at the Whippoorwill while she was in high school. I loved talking with Paula about the positive influence she had on my marketing students. She will be missed.
Beverly Spilman
February 14, 2015
Tom, Sara, and to Paula's mother and siblings,
I am so sorry for your loss. Paula was a genuinely open, kind, and caring person with a very creative soul. I never saw her without a smile! My thoughts are with you all at this time.
Molly Donahue
February 14, 2015
Tom and Sara,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that Paula and your family has been in my prayers over the past few months.
Mary Jo Swanson
February 14, 2015